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Monday, March 21, 2011

And a single perfidy changed it all!!


There were two friends. I always felt it was a divine friendship and their togetherness made me love them. They used to sit, eat, dance, enjoy and roam together. They always shared their each sorrow and happiness. And above all I used to love the gleaming faces due to the joy they had when they were together.

I always felt both of them were lucky to have another as I had never seen the care and love they had among themselves. They never needed any other company as they had so much to talk about and had so much fun. And so, it was an ideal friendship for me. It was not just two people but they were two souls connected by a same string.

I longed for the same and so started caring for each and everyone hoping that someday I might find some friend who would be affectionate the same way they were with each other. As time passed by, I found disparities among those two friends. I felt that they had some unspoken words which they wished to convey and had an unusual silence even in words. 

And yess alas I was right..!! One of them betrayed the other for a long time and when it was found out they got split up. And now the situation is they can not even face each other. One of them always felt guilty for doing what he did and the other one was filled with anger and felt cheated.

As a year passed, both of them got involved in their own life and forgot the past. But now when I see them, I see just two individual smiling but not laughing, living but not enjoying and having new people but still missing that old friend. I learnt a lesson that in friendship and in relations we must never cheat upon the other one. It is the trust which holds the foundation of the structure which we build for years with our love, affection and care.

And also realised

“IT IS VERY EASY TO WIN TRUST; EVEN EASIER TO BREAK IT...BUT IT IS REALLY DIFFICULT TO ALWAYS STANDBY IT”

14 comments:

  1. A very important message indeed!!
    It takes a second to break a relationship that has been nurtured for years. Sad, but evils exist, that's why we value nice people :)

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  2. trueee..felt d importanc of trust n nvr 2 break it..so wrote d post..thnx :)

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  3. if all people realize this, the world would not be a better place to live as no one wuld make new friends

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  4. @ prabhat: i luvd d way u lukd at it :)

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  5. Well said nidhi... you are absolutly right... each n every relation's main foundation is trust... But all is due to some kind of misunderstading in somewhere... It is better to clear everything without any hassle to our friends... hope we will nvr have any kind of misunderstanding...

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  6. @hardik:amen :)
    n so well said by u

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  7. " I felt that they had some unspoken words which they wished to convey and had an unusual silence even in words."...very thoughtful

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  8. Interesting, and so true... its always tough to stand by. Those who do, are blessed.

    Nice one Nidhi.

    Cheers,
    Blasphemous Aesthete

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  9. @ Blasphemous Aesthete: thank you so much

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  10. A nice write up! Something like this connection is with me and three of my friend. Cheers

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  11. then i wud say peopl b togethr n luv d relation of frnshp :)

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  12. It happens a lot of time! i have experienced it myself..its actually very very difficult to find relations which r truly 'true' and honest! a good write up..it really takes a lot to share something this personal on blog.. :)



    sarah

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  13. @ sarah: thnkuu so much :)
    n also i thnk v need not find those relations, dey happens demselves n wen dey do n wen v really luv dem, our loyalty towards dem also cums automatically

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